Do you ever feel that the whole world against over you?
You do? Then, welcome to my world. Well, not my world to be exact. It is just my situation right now. What I feel right now. You done everything that are the best for you, but surprisingly people around you say it is not. For the next step, what would you do?
A. Just follow what they pointing at.
As an example. You want to have your lunch at Secret Recipe. But then, your college mates say that it is not worth for having lunch there. They say that it is better to have lunch at Carl's Jr. But then, you still want to eat at Secret Recipe. After a while your college mates pushing you back and forth, forcing you, try to manipulate you, saying that your choices are wrong, doubting you and so on, you start to feel uneasy and just want them to shut their fxcking mouth, you just follow the flow.
B. Prove that they are wrong.
As an example. You want Converse shoes to add in to your shoes collection. But then, your sister say that it is better for you to wear Jimmy Choo high heels to add in to your collection. You want something trendy, comfortable and nice to wear for daily life. But still, your sister pushing you back and forth, forcing you, try to manipulate you, saying your choices are wrong, doubting you and so on, you start to feel uneasy and just want them to shut their fxcking mouth. It is not like Jimmy Choo aren't trendy, comfortable and nice to wear. But for daily routine? Seriously. And yeah, you not gonna buy that Jimmy Choo and prove that your sister are wrong.
Can you guys differentiate both decision you gonna do? Can you? Can you? Haha. Let me give my opinion here okay? Well, if you take A as your next step, I aint gonna lie that there is pros and cons. The pros are you gonna make them damn happy for following what they want you to choose and the cons are you not gonna feel satisfied. AT ALL. And what if you take B as your next step? Well, the pros are you gonna feel VERY satisfied with the desicion you make and the cons, you gonna make them mad, unsatisfied and maybe hate you?
I know, this ain't easy. Well, this is life. You can't satisfied everyone. You can't satisfied you and them. Them and you. You just can't. Maybe at a time, taking A as your second step is the best and maybe B are the best. It depends. I'm not gonna teach you how to live your life. It's YOUR life. Not mine. So, what ever it is, I wish you the best and what ever happen next, screw it. :)